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Family Reunions

6/25/2018

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Skipjack, photo from EPA, public domain
​I enjoyed a great family reunion on my husband’s side of the family last week. In the Chesapeake Bay area, we sailed on a skipjack, ate great crabs in all forms, swam in pools or watched the kids swim, and talked, talked, talked.
 
We didn’t share all the genres that you, dear readers, shared with me from your own family reunions. But you told me about potlucks (a feature of my childhood family reunions), group photos (ours, too), and reunion T-shirts (we did that once, but I was the only one proudly displaying my t-shirt this year).
 
But wait. Let’s see if I can share my experience through the genres we shared, organized by the activities we shared. Of course, some of these activities involved one or two planners more than the rest of the family, or the children more than the adults, or the other way around. I bet you can guess the type of people involved by the genre activity--but not always (more than a few adults liked to play in the pool). 

Planning
 
Family conversations about where to go this time (begun two years ago)
Family group emails about locations (begun months ago)
Family group emails about dates
School calendars 
Work calendars
Camp calendars
Word-of-mouth hotel reviews
Hotel websites
TripAdvisor hotel reviews
Phone conversations with hotel reservationists
Reservations
Confirmation emails
Family group emails about selected location and dates
Hotel email changing our plans
Phone calls to hotel
Complaints
Negotiations
Compromises
Confirmation emails
 
Travel
 
Plane reservations
Rental car reservations
Driving maps/GPS directions
Out-of-office automatic responses
Airport parking lot location markers
Boarding passes
TSA Pre (lucky us!)
Photo ID
Checked luggage tags
TSA security signs
TSA ID check
TSA instructions
Line-up poles organizing passengers in airport
Boarding announcements
Flight delay announcements
Safety cards in seatback pocket
Exit row instructions from flight attendant (lucky us!)
Oral assents to follow exit row instructions
Drink and food cards in seatback pocket
Airplane magazine
Magazine crossword and Sudoku puzzles
Novels set in Chesapeake Bay
More flight delay announcements
Conversations about weather, flight connections, past travel delays
Novel, novel, novel
Flight attendant instructions to all passengers
Pilot instructions to cabin attendants to take seats
Take-off
Seat-belt sign
Drink orders
Lavatory occupied lights
Novel, novel, novel
Landing instructions
Landing
Baggage claim signs
Baggage announcements
Texts with arriving family members and drivers
Passenger Pick-up designations
Greetings, hugs, joy (lucky us!)
GPS directions
Catching-up conversations
Road signs etc etc etc (too many on the road to list)
Hotel check-in
Room keys
Greetings, hugs, joy (lucky us!)
Elevator button panels

[Phew—I need a break from listing genres before getting to the more fun stuff!]

​Eating
 
Menus
Kids’ menus
Cocktail menus
Draft beer and wine lists
Giving and taking food and drink orders
Ice cream varieties
Catching-up conversations
Grabbing the check
 
Playing
Soccer games
Walks down the dock
Strolls around the grounds
​Bird identifications (or at least discussions)
Sunsets
Sunset photos
Kid photos
Smiles (lucky us!)
 
Swimming (its own huge category of playing)
Sunscreen (SO many different kinds)
Monitoring children
Swimming strokes
Dog paddling
Dunks
Pool toys
Fighting over pool toys
Admonishments
Planning how to get five children onto one pool turtle
Piling onto pool turtle (yes, these are genres--repeated symbolic actions)
Whining
Tattling
Laughing
Pool football
Pool volleyball
Sliding down the water slide
Slide races
Advice to adults about how to gain speed sliding down a slide
Switching to other pools (repeat dunking, laughing, games)
Poolside catching-up conversations
Poolside drink orders (including lemonade and water, I’ll have you know)
More sunscreen
More and deeper conversations
More laughter (lucky us!)
Five children on float toy in swimming pool
Kids on Pool Turtle, Personal photo (shared with permission of parents)
Group Tour
Tourism websites
Reservations
Confirmations
Family group emails about reservations and time
Gathering (a repeated activity for everything)
Past reunion t-shirt
Assignment of riders to cars
GPS directions
Skipjack boats (lucky us!)
Boat crew introductions
Checks (as in writing a check)
Life jacket instructions
Casting off (is that what it’s called, you sailors?)
Raising sails (hoisting?)
Tour guide explanations
Tour guide history
Tour guide stories
Asking questions
Steering instructions
Steering attempts
Seeking shade (a repeated action--hot us!)
Photos
Thank yous
Group photo 
 
Eating Out
Recommendations
Restaurant websites
Yelp reviews
GPS locators
Online menus 
Comparing and consulting
Letting others plan 
Deciding on a restaurant
Changing minds
Deciding again
Dividing into cars
Parking spaces
Menus (kids, food, drinks, specials)
Comparing what others are ordering
Taking and giving food and drink orders
Itemizing what they’re out of
Changing food and drink orders
Reviews of food and drink items
Sharing tastes and sips
Loud conversations
Ice creams
Grabbing the check
 
[Repeat next night]
 
Conversations
Catching-up
Future plans
Worries
Teasing stories of past events
Suggestions for next family reunion
And so many more unique conversations (lucky us!)
​Farewells
Checking out of hotel
Gathering in the lobby
Exclamations of amount of fun had
Wishes to see each other sooner
Invitations to visit
Children promising to write
Long hugs
Expressions of love
Tears (lucky us!)
 
Travel home
[See above, repeat, including flight delays]
Arriving home
Unpacking
Filling laundry basket
Collapsing into bed (lucky, lucky us!!)

I recognize how fortunate I am to have such wonderful families in my life. I hope many of you have such families, too, or have them in your memories. I also recognize that many don’t. For you, I hope you have found your own people to share eating, talking, laughing, and hugging.

​Whatever forms they might take, we all need re-unions with others we love.
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Just one of the ways of dividing into cars--lucky me! Personal photo, shared with permission
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